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Ways to make your fiancee feel she’s not a slut after sex.

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Ways to make your fiancee feel she’s not a slut after sex.

There’s more to what you can do to remove the “He’ll think I’m too easy” concern without having to be an expert jerk or an advanced, genuine man. You can do it right from the go, even if you’re a veritable novice with females.
Below are the five (5) different ways you can help remove the “I’ll be too easy or too slutty if I sleep with him or sleep with him fast or do sexual thing with him” things .
You should know that you can combine any or all of these, for the most effective physical manipulation 《seduction》, you will may want to put at least two of these into action if not more.

1. IN RISKY OR FREE CHOICE FRAME WAY.

These are designed to prime her into adventurous, spontaneous things. They also communicate to her what you cherish, adventure and choice frame. Plus they imply that you didn’t value the other side of those things, you want to do wild, crazy things, and you want them to happen at that moment.
Anything you communicate about yourself that speaks to adventure or spontaneity will define the kind of man you are to her.
◇ If you do outdoor sports, like rock climb or paraglide (adventurous)
◇ If you take her to places she’s not supposed to go, like a roped-off part of the venue (adventurous, and could be spontaneous if you do it with her spontaneously)
◇ If you suddenly suggest to get up with her and do something fun (spontaneous)
Your compliments, and her qualifications, should make her feel good when she shows adventurous and free choice frame sides of herself. And of course, show boredom and uninterested when she shows you her non-adventurous, non-spontaneous side.
If you do a good job of this, and by the time you’ve gotten her alone with you, she would be in a habit of doing or behaving in adventurous ways with you, and doing spontaneous, exciting things with you which causes intimacy between you and her. Adventurous act, which you will engage in rather spontaneously with her.

2. SEXUALLY BE AN EXPERT.

Doing everything you can do to demonstrate or perform like expertise on the bed will make women feel much less slutty or easy about hooking up with you very fast. During our research, we encounter some women that said – woman always assume-Usually correctly – that the more sexually successful a man is, the less judgmental he is about female sexuality, and the more he has ‘seen it all’.
During our research and interviews, we found out that it is also, frankly, exciting for a girl to hook up with a sexually experienced, sexually comfortable man. T And even if there are plenty of men out there like this, the odds that she meets such a man, and hits it off with him, are not great. It is a scarce thing for her to meet a man comfortable and experienced in the bedroom whom she also likes.
Its a fact that you cannot just meet a girl and tell her you’re good in bed. Words are cheap, and it’s a simple thing to lie. And many men do. Many women have had men claim to be good in bed who turned out not to be.
Thus, to show sexual expertise, you’ll have to rely on more artful or practical ways to talk about this than simply to tell her.
There’s one other way again, that not all people can do all the time, but every guy can do it eventually. And that is to be older. Generally, younger women are not going to try as hard to make you wait or worry as much you will “think they are easy” if you’re older than them. They assume that by that point you are comfortable with sex and have seen a lot of life, you aren’t judgmental and especially assume this if you are confident, take charge around them.
But don’t worry – if you’re young, you can still use any of the other four ways we’ll talk about here. Or you can use sex talk, sex stories, or one of the other ways to exhibit sexual expertise we talked about above.

3. SHORT TIMED, BUSYBODY.

Are you scarce or her meeting with you something urgent?

If it’s like that, then there’s no sense or benefit in delaying things out or pretending. Either it occurs fast, or it does not occur at all.
This sense of urgency is the easiest for those who are truly busy. I.E. the better able you are to convey to her that:
☆ You don’t have much time around.
☆ You don’t have much time for leisure
☆ You don’t have much time for things in general.
These will less your time dealing with *patience* talks. She knows you have little time, and knows you won’t judge or see her as a slut if she chooses to be with you just because your time is short.
+, this is even more the case when you make her understand that you do not wait around for women to make up their minds about you. Another way to do it instead is to make her understand that the people you respect most are the ones who go for what they want and do not waste time.
《Why should we wait? Because ‘other people’ will respect you more if you do? What do other people have to do with you and me?》
You may also seed urgency from the beginning of the courtship, by screening her for urgency the same way you would adventurousness and spontaneity.
Anytime you are wit her alone,
Ask her this question.
☆If you see something you want or like, do you go for it? Or do you just sit and think about it until it’s already slipped through your fingers?☆
If she says she goes for it, fine. Reward her with soft touch and tell her how much you like that and respect it, and if she says she doesn’t go for what she wants, tell her you bet she’d have a lot more of what she wanted in life.
The reason why you should be a little bit scarce with any girl meet is that in general, the scarcer you are and the more urgent her connection with you feels, the more likely she is to climb into bed with you whenever she gets the chance to.

4. DISCRETION.

This communication of discretion in this way allow women relax around you sexually… you are one of the scarce men she can ever trust, whom she can let her guard down around or for, who will not hurt her or throw her out after sex.
One of the easiest ways to communicate discretion is to simply screen her your self on discretion:
《You don’t kiss and tell, do you? Because I like to keep my private life separate for myself.》
When she says she doesn’t, you can qualify or reply her on that (“Good, I like it like that”) and continue with the conversation, discretion established. Especially if she thinks you may not want details about any motive that she has going public with you.

SHE DOESN’T NEED TO FEEL SLUTTY

If she’s a girl you just met and having sex for the first time, she want to leave immediately after sex, once she’s about to stand up from the bed, hold her, and ask her to stay if she wants to stay.
● Make her feel good, and help her sleep easily after sex by laying her head on your chest if she feels like.
● Tell her some jokes and make her smile instead of that look on her face after sex.
● Tell her you feel good and that you enjoy the sex.
● Ask her about how she feels during the sex ( That’s if you played your role very well on the run.)
Note that she wants very much to have sex.
But she wants to preserve her body, her image and reputation more.
If you can profound to her that you present no threat to her self-image or her reputation, and that you respect her decisions. You also make yourself a sexually attractive man, she will wish to sleep with you again….
With these content, we’ve covered four (4) ways to help girls not feel slutty or easy around you.
Each of these work regardless whether you’ve positioned yourself as a boyfriend, lover, or anything else. Each will push you closer toward the lover role – so you may end up in that role regardless. However, you can always switch to positioning your self as a boyfriend. if you want to keep a girl around.

 

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