HAVE SEX FREQUENTLY: Lets assume that your husband has a libido, make an effort to accept his advances. Even initiate sex once in a while. The more intimacy and satisfaction your man gets from home, the less likely he will look for it outside the home.
It isn’t that a robust sex life is any guarantee against infidelity, but a wife that has little interest in sex can leave a man looking for substitution.
- Give your husband the kind of meal he wants to eat. Dietary nagging is still nagging, even if it’s for his own good. Husbands will follow from your example; just eat healthfully yourself, and he will change on his own, change is a choice.
- Cook his favorite meals every week so that he looks forward to coming home after work all the time.
It can be hard for women to understand a man’s attachment to food. It’s primal. The degree to which your man loves eating the food you cook is the degree to which he rushes home after work to eat it. These two points are big factors when it comes to creating a happy man in a marriage.
ASSOCIATE WITH SOME GOOD MARRIED COUPLE:
They may be a good influence/effect, and remind your spouse that being married is better. having happy couples around is good reinforcement.
DON’T DESTROY YOUR MRRIAGE WITH THE PROBLEM OF YOUR KIDS:
Remember, children grow up and leave home eventually, but your spouse is for life. Surrender on issues that are not serious. Typically, couples fight about the details of reward and punishment. So long as you agree that a child should be punished for an incident, the punishment itself is not that important.
Big nods all around. “Children are just passing through,” . Children should know that the love their parents share for each other is precious and honored. Some parents will say, “We don’t have the time to go on dates or get away,” but truthfully there’s nothing more important than the maintenance of their relationship.
MAKE TIME FOR YOUR HUBBY
Be a submissive wife, listen to him when he is speaks and when he’s angry even if it bores you out of your mind. Many men seek comfort in emotional affairs because they get no attention at home. Treat your husband the way you would like him to treat you. It is true that men often appear impassive and without emotional needs. Don’t believe it. He needs you to talk to him, about some issues other than the bills and payments or problems of life. He wants you to admire him and support him in every ways (not all financially). Do it at every time.
- If there is something that your spouse has mentioned or finds sexy on you, you are advised to go buy a bundle of it.
Did he tell you he loves that new perfume? Use it always.
Finally, I assume we don’t need to mention this but, when a man cheats it’s HIS fault. He steps outside the vows of the relationship and the blame for the infidelity is his. Make no mistake. However, based on what I heard from the women in our discussion group it’s always possible for one person or the other to push his/her partner away. If a woman woke up one day and said to her husband, “I have no interest in sex” and maintained that policy, she would be pushing him astray.